Five Soul Mate Clues: Be A Love Detective
Posted on April 10, 2009
Every girl deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved. Here’s a whole new approach to getting the love you want.
So your guy doesn’t tell you he loves you as much as you would like and you feel you can’t be happy without hearing those three little words more often.
I suggest a whole new approach in getting the love you want, begin
searching for the clues of your man’s devotion in his everyday
behavior. You really do need to be a detective to do this.
Detectives collect evidence objectively and then analyze the clues for the answer. Objectively is
the key word! Sometimes it is near impossible to stay objective when it
comes to affairs of the heart, but you have read this far so I know I
am talking to the right woman.
With tongue firmly in cheek, here are some clues that I have found
in my own relationship, see if you can recognize similar things with
your guy!
1. Micro-managing: What? I can
just hear you say, “I hate being micro-managed?, I know, I do too! But,
I have started to realize that he only micro-manages out of love. I
used to be annoyed when I heard, “Don’t forget to lock the door.? Or ?
It’s snowing out there and the roads are slippery, better drive slow!?
Now I choose to see it differently. Translation: I love you!
2. Leaving his belongings around the house: Just think, he trusts that you won’t take, steal or destroy his stuff as it litters the house. Translation: I trust you.
3. His symphony of body noises: His ability to produce his noises no longer needs to be censored, what freedom. His freedom to be himself with you. Translation: I feel comfortable with you.
4. Sports on TV: Now you
can run your errands, have coffee with a friend or go to the bookstore
to read a current magazine. His attention to something other than you
shows his trust that you will always be there for him. Translation: I adore you!
5. Weak Calendar Skills: Knowing you
will remind him of important dates, he let’s go of the need to remember
anniversaries and birthdays, especially the obscure ones like the first
date. Translation: Every day is like a holiday with you, baby.
Ladies, your man loves you. He is becoming more
and more comfortable with you and in his way, he is showing you love
and acceptance. While you may need to hear those three little words
more often, if you continue to look for evidence of his regard for you
in his comfort with you, it won’t be long before your acceptance of him
will change the atmosphere in your home.
When you are feeling less stressed and insecure about the lack of
love language from him, you will be able to ask for what you want. When you COACH your man into being a soul mate to you, he will be much more responsive than if you nag him into it.
Men are used to being coached. Coaching assumes mutual respect.
Coaching also allows that the skill the coach is strengthening is
already there, just undeveloped.
When he realizes that what you truly want is to FEEL more loved and
that you are willing to learn more ways to get there than hearing those
three little words , it won’t be long before he will actually be saying
“I love you? because you have paved the way.
Your man loves you. With your Love Detective skills you will see
more evidence every day and he will soften toward you as you accept him
as he is.
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